Co-parenting is what you make it

Co-parenting: Being stuck raising your kids with someone you hate until they turn 18. A lot of time though, people have that mindset. Some people think that co-parenting relationships like Alicia, Swizz, and Moshanda and Jada, Will, and Sheree are just fairy tales. I hear horror stories about co-parenting relationships and I honestly don't get…

Insta-Fame

You got a lot of views? Okay, you're famous now. With the popularity of social media and the abrupt response of being seen as soon as something is posted, it seems like the easiest way to make it now is to do something crazy and post it and be famous in a few days. Its…

Sex before marriage? Yes, please!

Everyone has different ideals when it comes to their body and what they want to do with it. Everything is about perspective and a lot of it comes from how you were raised. I didn't get a lot of sex talks (I honestly don't remember having one at all) and I loved my grandfather to…

Try Before you Buy…Not talking Cars.

Sex before marriage. Whew. So this is an interesting topic. I'll give the history on where my viewpoints come from so you understand my stance on the matter. *Clears throat* Alright, so I was brought up in a Christian household. My mother was/still is a Minister of Music so I was in the church with…

Sex before marriage or nah?

Can sex before marriage hinder you from finding your husband or wife? Question of the day. A lot of women feel that if they have sex with a man too soon, or at all, he will look at her in a different, often negative, way. Others think it doesn't matter at all. Men get to…

Menz

I really do love ya'll Men if you are reading this, first of all I just want to start off by saying that I love ya'll, I really do... but I am in a weird space with men right now. Dating in LA has left me to deal with the situation in extremes. I have…

VDAY

Oh Valentines Day. So many people hate you, but there are so many people that anticipate this day so much, they start their planning on January 2nd. I am neither of those people. Once Upon a Time....... Way backkkkkkkk in 2003..... There was a basketball player and a cheerleader that rode the same middle school…

If it aint white, it aint right. At least that’s what they trying to tell us.

So for one of my courses I did a blog post about code switching.  According to Google Dictionary code switching is the practice of alternating between two or more languages or varieties of language in conversation. I discussed how for me, code switching has always had a deeper definition. Code switching for me means changing the way I speak or act…

Men…

Alright sooooo. I'm about to share some stuff I haven't even shared with my girls yet. We decided that we were going to blog about men. And then Black History Month, and then Valentine's Day. And guess how much I blogged about. My bad y'all I am far behind, so I am trying to play…

Happy Valen-spendalotofmoney-Tine’s Day!

Shucky Ducky and a Quack Quack February 14th. The day of love. Passion. Romance. Sybaris Sales. The time where Wal-mart and 'nem all set out the helium pumped, heart-shape balloons, the orchids and roses, red and pink cards, plushies, teddies, and Koalas that say "I'm Koalified to be yours," and of course the chocolate hearts.…